Was i so wrong ?

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Registered: 07-28-2012
Was i so wrong ?
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Wed, 11-07-2012 - 4:17am

<p>Hi all, i have a boyfriend who lives 1/4 mile away and although he does not like to stay at mine he does as so do i stay at his , He presently does not work and he lives on his own . I work full time have a son at college and a aging poorly dog , but i make the effort to go to his to stay over too.&nbsp;</p><p>Last eve after packing dog bed, food , my clothes and meds for my dog ..getting her into car (i carry step around ) i arrived and got settled ..Having a glass of wine i noticed my dog did not look too good ..i said to him look at her what do you think of her breathing ?? He immediately jumped up out of his seat and said"I can see im in the bleeding way here " and marched off upstairs ! so not knowing what to do i packed my dogs things up and my own ...got her into the car and came home ..i was not at his a hr b4 this happened ..i felt so let down by his behaviour ..did i do right ,,iv not phoned or text nor he me either , comments would be appreciated thank you x</p>

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Wed, 11-07-2012 - 12:48pm

Talk about over-reaction--all you did was ask him a question.

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Registered: 01-30-2012
Wed, 11-07-2012 - 9:13am

That is so weird. Not only were you not "so wrong", I can't find one single solitary aspect of that little exchange that even gave you the opportunity to be wrong. How can a sick dog or your understandable and reasonable concern for it lead to such an outburst on his part? It sounds like his anger, frustration, etc. must stem from something else and have been completely displaced here. Even so, his behavior was so over the top insensitive that I wonder if he acts like this often. Is he usually kind to you? Or is he generally a pretty miserable bugger?

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