Was it worth it? What's my next move?

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Registered: 07-14-2011
Was it worth it? What's my next move?
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Thu, 07-14-2011 - 10:34pm

It's pretty fresh so I might not have explained it as thoroughly as I could.

My boyfriend and I were friends for a year before we got together. When we did, it was the best relationship I ever had, which sucks, because even now, breaking up, his best qualities come out, and it's why I fell for him in the first place, which I hate, because it's an annoying cycle. We get each other so well, and that's the only reason I'm not finding him a douchebag and moving on with my life. Anyway, I'm in college, and he works, and given our busy schedules, our regular relationship consists of calls and the several visits I make when I fly down to his island. We've been dating since April. We were talking before but didn't get together because we were confused and hurt, as other people wanted to date us as well. It was out of character for me--I don't normally go back to anyone after we establish a friends-only relationship.

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Registered: 05-20-2009
Fri, 07-15-2011 - 12:07am

"In all your years of dating"?