We broke up now not sure what is goingon
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We broke up now not sure what is goingon
| Wed, 08-01-2007 - 3:37pm |
Well it was probably the beginning of March when i broke up with *Mark*. It felt like we have lost touch with each other we were just going to motions so i moved out, got my own place. We still talked during that time. for a couple months we would send me messages bout going somewhere with him or coming over to his house to watch movies. I always told me i was busy. I guess i was just unsure of what i wanted well at the beginning of this month i finally figured it out. We started hanging out and doing stuff, i then started staying over there. It wasnt the same but i understand that. Well last friday night he was going out with his brother and he didnt invite me to come along i was at his house before he left, he said something bout me being here when he got back i said do u want me here he said i wont agrue with u he said he wasnt planning on being at the bar til they closed. Well i went and did some stuff he sent me a message and i figured he was on his way home, but he never said that well i got to his house and went to bed i tried sending messages and calling him he never answered but where he went the town doesnt have very good reception so i figured he was still there. Well i woke up and he still wasnt there, well i didnt know if he got in a wreck or what happened so i was spazin out. He finally got home around noon. well we talked bout what happened i really couldnt get mad at him cause we arent really a couple we are just "friends". Well we had a long discussion bout y he didnt invite me and what was really going on with us. He told me the reason he didnt invite me was cause its hard to meet women when u have one with u. i said so is that y u went then he said no i didnt go for that reason. then we talked bout what was going on with us. he said he was confused that i didnt really want to do n e thing with him for 3 months and now i do. i said that i really didnt know what i wanted then, but now i do. he told me that he doesnt feel the same way he did b 4 (but i really couldnt tell that cause he still asks the same way) and he doesnt know now what he wants he says its in Gods hands now.
I am just really confused he says he doesnt feel the same way but he doesnt act n e different than he did when we were dating. What is his deal. i understand that i broke up with him and if i want a relationship with him i am going to have to work hard to get back what we had but i am willing to do that.
Thanks for reading this long message.
I am just really confused he says he doesnt feel the same way but he doesnt act n e different than he did when we were dating. What is his deal. i understand that i broke up with him and if i want a relationship with him i am going to have to work hard to get back what we had but i am willing to do that.
Thanks for reading this long message.

You two broke up for a reason. What has really changed since then to indicate that things will work this time?
It seems to me that he likes the 'friends with benefits' thing you have going on and as he said 'he doesnt feel the same way he did b 4'
Are you back with him because you really want him or you don't like being alone?
If you really want him back, you need to tell him that. THEN, you need to stop sleeping with him unless and until he decides he wants to also try again.
If you keep giving him the milk for free, why would he want to buy the cow?