We work together!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-14-2008
We work together!!
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Mon, 01-14-2008 - 8:17pm
So here it is--I'm in relationship with a guy I work closely with almost every day. I'm 31. He's 23. I've tried to end it many times but he won't leave me alone. We've been doing this for 2 years now. I still see no future, but I don't know how to free myself for good. I have a pretty decent position at this place so I don't want to quit but I'm getting desperate.
Obviously I like this guy (2 years) but I know he's not the one for me. He just hasn't had enough relationships to realize that I'm not the one for him.
Anyone in a similar sit.? Any advice?
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: acim
Mon, 01-14-2008 - 9:37pm

Welcome to the board acim,


He's not going to listen and will push your limits. You will have to be the one to set boundaries and enforce them.


Consider this:


Handling Breakups at Work

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Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: acim
Tue, 01-15-2008 - 12:09pm

Welcome to the board acim,


You will have to be the one to break up with him and then set some boundaries and keep them. It will be hard since you work together, but it can be done. Anytime he tries to talk to you about your relationship, simply tell him that it is over and that will only discuss work issues with him. If he continues to push relationship talk walk away from him.


Best of luck to you.

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