Wedding Blues/EX is calling
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| Tue, 07-27-2004 - 7:40am |
Last month my fiancé called to tell me that his ex-girlfriend from FL (A relationship he had off and on for a year, five years ago) rang him up to ask why are her emails being sent back to her. He told her that he had closed his email account (which he has), he said that the conversation was brief- that he wanted to get off the phone as soon as he could since he was watching a film, and was almost over.
What rubbed me the wrong way was how he hasn't told this ex-girlfriend that we are getting married in two months. I asked him why didn't you tell her, he says that he just wanted to be left in peace- he didn't want her to ask him questions. At the time I felt that his ex-girlfriend's feelings were more important than mine. I'm not telling him who he can or can't be friends with. But he could have at least told her he would soon be a married man.
He's a reserved person. He told me that he didn't want her to know our business. And his ex is the past. But how can she be the past when she's ringing him up, sending him emails. Surely there has to be something more..
This call has been something I have not been able to get off my mind.. Why would he leave out we are getting married? I then said, "If you can't tell your ex you're getting married, maybe you aren't ready." He says "No."
Why doesn't he ask her not to call- when he tells me there is nothing more to say to her? I just can't understand why he even says a word to her after finding out the things we did on her.
Could it be possible that he still has feelings for this girl and not be admiting them to me?
Maybe I was rasied different..but I just found the whole situation to be disrespectful. Especially since he knows how much it botheres me.
Edited 7/27/2004 7:55 am ET ET by snowdrums
