WE're engaged, I broke up w/him.
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WE're engaged, I broke up w/him.
| Fri, 01-02-2004 - 10:00pm |
We argue all the time. And im just tired of dealing with it. i think the biggest mistake was moving in together before marriage. Living together is such a commentment. And unless you made ur vows and are settled. Theres no way that 100% of that commentment is there. Hes been working third shift for the last seven months. We had the agreement that as soon as he could move to first he would. Which would be after hes been there a yr (this june) well now hes loves third shift, has friends, likes the atmosphere of night shift, and hes staying. In his words "hes not going 1st just for me." Well i compromised and Im not doing it any longer. Hes sleeps all day when I get home. We use to have a pattern every night. Around 8 we watch a movie, eat supper, than go up to bed together. Theres nothing like that anymore. I feel like we just grown further apart. We dont talk right to each other either. We get snippy with each other easily. We're not as kind to each other as we use to be. Im 22 hes 25. We been together for a little of a yr. The marriage date was for spring of 2005. I just dont feel happy anymore. Hes the love of my life, and was everything i was looking for. But im not happy. And he never puts me first ever. Its always what works for him. i think it was that only child syndrom I dunno. Im just tired of arguing and him never acting like he cares about anything. i think he was upset tonight before he left fot work. But i just cant deal with this anymore.

I can understand you being upset.
Carrie