What am I to do ... ready to move on

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Registered: 01-07-2007
What am I to do ... ready to move on
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Fri, 12-28-2007 - 3:30pm

I need some advice on my current situation with my husband ... I am ready to leave him. I can not take this any longer . Let me give you some background on the problems I have . We were young when we met I was 16 and he was 19 . We had a pretty good relationship before we got married in 2000 and before our son was born . The only problems I ever had was with his parents . I have had an awful time with them . They are still 50% part of our problem and the other 50% is My husband .

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 4:10pm

Welcome to the board lvnlife25,


If you are ready to leave, and he doesn't believe that you will do anything than do something. Either ask him to leave or get a place of your own.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 5:15pm

Get yourself an excellent personal therapist to see on an on-going basis to help you and support you through this difficult situation. Your husband is being so disrespectful by putting his parents above you, and saying they can do anything they like with the children. That is not acceptable. Unless the two of you can communicate, see eye to eye on important things and unless he can be trust, can keep his word to you, there is no basis for a relationship. Leaving is not easy and there are many feelings you will need to work through. You will also need clarity and support. Remember there are also children involved, so you will need help in doing things wisely. Get the help that will be important and make healthy choices for all.


Best wishes,