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| Sun, 10-21-2007 - 10:36am |
I have been married for a month today, my wife and I met in April of this year.
| Sun, 10-21-2007 - 10:36am |
I have been married for a month today, my wife and I met in April of this year.
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Had you had sex before marriage?
When we were first together she left me because she was afraid i would reject her the way her ex boyfriend always did, sexually, physically and emotionallly because i had that reputation also.
It's very good that you will not cheat on someone and realize that to leave is the better thing.
Welcome to the board guyuser100,
You met her in April and married in Sept and have been married a month?
So i asked her today what she thought of being married for the first month.
Hi Guyuser.
You're married to someone who is still a child. 21 is a kid. I don't know what you were thinking; you realize that 21 year olds don't make the best decisions, right? Surely you remember being 21 and doing things you wish you hadn't.
I'm never a fan of divorce, but ask yourself honestly; would it really be that bad? What made you choose a girl so young? Why did you feel like you needed to rush into marriage?
You barely know one another. It's unfortunate that you couldn't wait to find out if you're right for one another before legally marrying, because it's pretty clear that you're probably not. I'm sorry but this sounds like the pretty obvious consequence of a very bad decision.
I completely agree!
Z
Get marriage counseling ASAP! As someone who got married at 22 (although DH was also 22) being young and married is overwhelming. 21 is very young. And even though it's only 9 years, it's
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