What am i doing wrong

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-21-2007
What am i doing wrong
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Sun, 10-21-2007 - 10:36am

I have been married for a month today, my wife and I met in April of this year.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2002
Sun, 10-21-2007 - 11:08am

Had you had sex before marriage?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-21-2007
Sun, 10-21-2007 - 12:00pm

When we were first together she left me because she was afraid i would reject her the way her ex boyfriend always did, sexually, physically and emotionallly because i had that reputation also.

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Registered: 10-17-2002
Sun, 10-21-2007 - 12:56pm

It's very good that you will not cheat on someone and realize that to leave is the better thing.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 10-21-2007 - 1:02pm

Welcome to the board guyuser100,


You met her in April and married in Sept and have been married a month?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-21-2007
Sun, 10-21-2007 - 4:00pm

So i asked her today what she thought of being married for the first month.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-13-2004
Sun, 10-21-2007 - 6:14pm

Hi Guyuser.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2007
Sun, 10-21-2007 - 7:38pm

You're married to someone who is still a child. 21 is a kid. I don't know what you were thinking; you realize that 21 year olds don't make the best decisions, right? Surely you remember being 21 and doing things you wish you hadn't.

I'm never a fan of divorce, but ask yourself honestly; would it really be that bad? What made you choose a girl so young? Why did you feel like you needed to rush into marriage?

You barely know one another. It's unfortunate that you couldn't wait to find out if you're right for one another before legally marrying, because it's pretty clear that you're probably not. I'm sorry but this sounds like the pretty obvious consequence of a very bad decision.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-10-2004
Mon, 10-22-2007 - 4:05am

I completely agree!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2007
Mon, 10-22-2007 - 7:00pm

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-18-2007
Mon, 10-22-2007 - 9:35pm

Get marriage counseling ASAP! As someone who got married at 22 (although DH was also 22) being young and married is overwhelming. 21 is very young. And even though it's only 9 years, it's

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