what can i do? NEED HELP!!!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2008
what can i do? NEED HELP!!!!!
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Mon, 05-19-2008 - 12:00pm

i have been married to my wife almost a year and we have been together just over 2 years.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-29-2003
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 12:04pm

"...we have had our issues..."


What, specifically, are the issues in your marriage?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 12:33pm

Welcome to the board newguy7,


Is counseling an option? If so, take her to marriage counseling now.


On the 4-day trip, get the Relationship Rescue by Phil McGraw and read it to each other.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 1:28pm

Welcome to the board newguy7,


Do you think it is true when she says she is the only one fighting for the relationship?


If this is going to work marriage counseling is a must.


Maybe she is trying to test you and get you to proof that you want to work on things?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2008
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 1:55pm

no major issues...i know ive never had an affair and i trust her and shes a great girl so i dont belive she has but we argued about money for quite sometime until i finally got her to cave in and set up a joint account with me.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-06-2008
Tue, 05-20-2008 - 5:55am

Is she bipolar?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2008
Tue, 05-20-2008 - 8:39am
she had taken stuff for depression when she was a teen but she hasnt for a few years now