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|Sun, 07-24-2011 - 9:44pm|
my dh and i have been together for a total of 6 years. we've been married for over 3. two major life changes have happened in the last 10 weeks. my first baby was born, my dh's second. he has primary custody of his 10 year old son. also my mom moved into our home (on his request) right before baby was born. she is unemployed and helps me with that baby.
but the passed 3 weeks or so things have been going south... i'm not sure there is a single cause to it... but i think it's because of my mom. she is looking for work and hasn't been having luck. but dh thinks she doesn't look hard enough. he doesn't understand that a lot of jobs are on the internet (his line of work isn't that way). he recently got laid off too, and is looking for work... but imo not hard enough. he also wants me to go to work, but with a brand new baby, along with this being my one and only i don't want to because i don't want to miss anything but i do want to make money.
he also gets annoyed with my mom with things she says... but she gets annoyed with him because she thinks he should help out more with the baby along with not playing video games so much.
i'm annoyed with both of them because of the reasons above.... but the tension in our household is just outrageous and i really can't take it.... i try to make things okay dokay... but it's going to pop soon!