What to do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-17-2007
What to do?
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Mon, 12-17-2007 - 12:14pm
I may be over-reacting on this, so I need some "outside" advice!

My DH and I have been married for
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Mon, 12-17-2007 - 12:28pm

Welcome to the board tigger00310805,


If he isn't willing to go to marriage counseling with you, I don't see the marriage getting any better. If there is any chance for it to get better, he is going to have to start listening to you and communicating with you on how to solve the problems.


Here are a few questions for you to think about:


Do you love him?


Do you want to be married to him?


Are you happy? If not, do you think you can be happy?


iVillage Member
Registered: 12-17-2007
Mon, 12-17-2007 - 12:53pm

I do love him very much, but it hurts at the same time.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Mon, 12-17-2007 - 1:26pm

Since he won't listen to you why don't you write him a letter telling him all of this. Maybe he would be more resptive to that.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 12-17-2007 - 1:30pm

Welcome to the board tigger00310805,


As nicely as possible, my question is 'What marriage?' from everything you wrote, you don't have a marriage.