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| Thu, 09-16-2004 - 9:39pm |
He cheated on his wife several times; divorced his wife and hooked up with his mistress; now he is cheating on his mistress but still checks up on her while he is another relationship with another woman. His ex-mistress works with him and is difficult to evade him but he strikes up conversation with the ex-mistress. She too loves him and does not cut him off - entertains his conversations. Why is he still checking up on the ex-mistress when he ended the realtionship for another woman?
Edited 9/16/2004 9:45 pm ET ET by dianas36
Edited 9/16/2004 9:45 pm ET ET by dianas36

Pianoguy had a 'pop music flashback' after reading your post.
Linda Ronstadt had a hit in the 70s called: "I CAN'T LET GO!" And that's the answer to your question.
Your b/f can't...and doesn't...want to let go!
Pianoguy
Let's state the obvious...why do you want to be with this guy anyway? What makes you think he won't cheat on you? He cheated on his wife AND then cheated on his mistress with you. If you think he's going to change you are sorely mistaken. I don't think you should be worried about him checking up on her so much because that doesn't seem to be the major porblem. The problem is that he's a cheater. He checks up on her because, like someone else said, he still wants her or still has this connection that he can't shake. I rarely see guys cheat on their wifes or girlfriends just because they don't like them, they do it because they want more sex, attention, to do something bad, to get more fulfillment, but not because he's done with them. My guess is he just wanted to get some and then ended up liking you and he's not ready to completely get rid of the mistress. The keyword here is mistress, do you really respect him and your relationship when you are the mistress to the mistress. This man is pathetic.
Edited 9/17/2004 6:09 pm ET ET by blondie0506
Carrie