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| Thu, 07-22-2004 - 12:44pm |
ok, i have been dating him for 2.5 months now. a little bit of background here... we went out twice a year ago. now its quite intense... he has been affectionate and everything. however, i went out of country for 2 weeks - came back on sunday. emailed him yesterday if he could meet today - no response yet... he seems to have been busy at work yesterday and traveling rest of week. also, his parents are visting him (from abroad) until end of this month. i feel sad and rejected for not hearing from him, because:
1. he is one of the few men (if not only one) that i have felt so connected with - from his gestures it seems he likes me (very thoughtful, considerate, sensitive, etc.)
2. he's bohemian in character - only trait i hate about him is he disappeared without a sign the last time we dated, but nothing was serious. i told him that i dont think its a good idea for us to date this time, as he did that... he explained the reason (was in an on off relation then and went back to gf). so i feel scared that he might hurt me again and this time, due to more involvement, i will be really hurt. fyi, he mentioned he didnt see his ex gf of 6 months for 2 months while they were in the relation (this was a part of our long talk about past, so there was a different context)... this makes me feel that he is bohemian indeed.
1. he is one of the few men (if not only one) that i have felt so connected with - from his gestures it seems he likes me (very thoughtful, considerate, sensitive, etc.)
2. he's bohemian in character - only trait i hate about him is he disappeared without a sign the last time we dated, but nothing was serious. i told him that i dont think its a good idea for us to date this time, as he did that... he explained the reason (was in an on off relation then and went back to gf). so i feel scared that he might hurt me again and this time, due to more involvement, i will be really hurt. fyi, he mentioned he didnt see his ex gf of 6 months for 2 months while they were in the relation (this was a part of our long talk about past, so there was a different context)... this makes me feel that he is bohemian indeed.
i plan to give him some time before i tried calling him (maybe a few more days). what do you think you would've done if you were in my place to mitigate this? thanks.
