What to do

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-19-2008
What to do
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Tue, 08-19-2008 - 12:51pm
Well about a year ago my husband and I split up because he was having an affair.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-25-2008
In reply to: lillith2008
Tue, 08-19-2008 - 1:16pm

Hi Lilith,


I am so sorry you are faced with this!! I do have to say that if you take your ex back, he is more than likely to do the same thing again. He stayed with the affair girl and then when that went sour, he came back to you because he made a mistake??? If he truly knew he made a mistake, he wouldn't have stayed with her and would have tried

Sara

"Seek to understand and you will be understood"

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: lillith2008
Tue, 08-19-2008 - 2:10pm

Welcome to the board lillith2008,


Affairs are the cocaine of romance. When a person is deep in it, it is exactly where they want to be, addicted to it even.