What to do about the other him?
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What to do about the other him?
| Wed, 09-08-2004 - 3:47pm |
Right now I am in a relationship with a great guy. Which will soon be a year. I care about him very much but I don't think that he feels the same way that I do. I love him very much but I feel that I am the only one feeling this way. But then there is another guy that I am also interested in. I have been friends with him for 4 years and I consider him to be one of my best friends but I also realized that I am starting to have feelings for him as he does for me. He knows that I am in a relationship and they have also met eachother. My guy has no idea how I feel but my friend does. The thing is I dont want to lose my boyfriend, but I dont know what to do about the other him. What should I do? HELP PLEASE.
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| Wed, 09-08-2004 - 4:13pm |
Talk to your BF. Tell him how you feel about him, and ask him how he feels about you. If he says he feels the same way, tell him what he does that makes you think he doesn't - specifically. Then work out the issues that make you question his love. If they can't be worked out, or nothing changes after a period of time then you should break up. If he says he doesn't really love you, or if he says he unsure (which is total BS after 4 years), then you should break up. Don't ever bring a third party into an unhappy relationship. Nothing good can come of it. Don't pursue anything with the other guy while you're still in a relationship. Best to stop talking to him entirely until you've made a firm decision to stay or go.
