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| Fri, 12-07-2007 - 6:44pm |
Hi,
Im just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this...
If your relationship has been in extreem turmoil for quite some time, and you have just gone through a serious seperation, custody fight, down right nasty time, and you have just reconciled, not to mention a tremendous amout of more serious issues since you have reconciled, do you think that having sex will fix it all and make everyone feel better? I shared with him that fact that given our recent circumstances, I am hesitant to be so intimate, for many reasons, and I don't want to be hurt again. Does that make sense to anyone, or am I supposed to just give it to him when ever he wants it to keep the peace?

Hi there,
Well, We have been together for 20 years, not married, 2 kids 8 and 5. I took the kids and moved out in July, All H** BROKE LOOSE!! Hense the custody battle etc....
Welcome to the board mlo328,
These boards are very slow over the weekends usually, so hopefully come Monday you will have more replies.
No sex will not make it 'all better'. Emotional intimacy can lead to sex.... BUT there is a
I haven't read the other posts, so please forgive me if I repeat something.
My thoughts are that if you're not prepared to have an intimate relationship, then you shouldn't be back together again.