What do I do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-03-2003
What do I do?
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Sun, 06-06-2004 - 9:34pm
My fiance announced that though he loves me, he's no longer on love with me. What does that mean? What do I do? He said he doesn't know why he feels that way. He's been very depressed lately. A night ago, he told me that if I found someone else he would smile, give me his blessing, cry his eyes out, and love me foe the next 800 years if he would live that long. He says I've given him the kind of love every man wants and that I've given him no reason not to spend the rest of his life with me. But, he's ending it because he's no longer in love with me which is different than loving me? Please help.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-29-2003
In reply to: jgsparkles
Sun, 06-06-2004 - 9:56pm
He is dumping you in the nicest way possible. Accept that its over and move on.
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Registered: 09-26-2003
In reply to: jgsparkles
Mon, 06-07-2004 - 8:21am

My heart goes out to you hun......


I think what he means is that he loves you, but not how a fiance should love their future spouse. Despite how much it hurts and how hard it will be, yo need to start to move on.Unfortunatley, it will be without him as your husband...but it sounds like you made a lifelong freind. Things happen for a reason and though it may seem unclear now, you know why this happened later on in life.....


Best of luck to you....keep in touch.