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what do I do?
| Tue, 01-27-2004 - 12:18pm |
I have been with my husband for almost 14 years now and we have been married for 5 and a half. I have not felt like I love him anymore for the past 2 years. We have almost seperated 3 times because I have told him about feeling this way but he has asked me to stay and try to work things out each time. I still care for him and it makes me feel bad to hurt him so I agree to try to work on it in hopes that my feelings for him will change. I feel like I have tried to love him and appreciate what he has changed or given up for me but it still doesn't seem to be enough. He is very willing to do whatever I want him to to try to make things better but I just don't know if anything is going to help. I feel like we have been trying the past 2 years and it has only gotten harder. Is there something else I should do before I give up? Oh, another twist, I recently found out I was pregnant after we had been trying since we were married. The first thing he asked when I told him was if it was his. This made me very upset that he would ask that when I have given him no reason to not trust me. He said it was only because we had tried so long with no success and then when we are having problems and I come up pregnant so he had to ask. The baby is due early April. Should I stay and try again for the baby's sake or should I end it once and for all because there is no hope? If I stay what can I do to make myself love him again?
Thank you so much!
Thank you so much!

Carrie