What do i do???

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-08-2008
What do i do???
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Thu, 05-08-2008 - 11:44pm

Ok, so i met this girl a couple years ago when i moved to San Diego! It was one of those 'love at first sight' type of encounters. We hit it off right away and begin dating immediately. After a few months of bliss i came down with a slight case of 'quarter life-crisis'. You know that time in your life when you hit age 25 and think to yourself 'what am i doing with my life?

Anyway, i completely self sabbotaged our relationship. We went from loving each others company to breaking up and both of us moving out of state. Since that time we've talked on and off via phone, e-mail or text message. We've even had discussions about our relationship and where we would have been had it not been for my quarter-life melt down.

This past December i decided to take a trip out to Portland to see her and we had a blast! She initially was very aprehensive about the visit. But that soon went away when we saw each other. After i came back all i could do was think about how stupid i was to mess things up with a girl who is the most perfect girl for me. Just recently she asked if she could come out for a visit in a couple weeks. I was so excited i bought her a plane ticket to come and we plan on spending a long weekend together.

So i guess my question is how do i approach the situation when she comes? I'm in love with this girl and i want us to be together. Please somebody Hellllllllllllllllllllp..... :-D

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 05-08-2008 - 11:56pm

Welcome to the board christopher2121,


Well I'd say you need to be open and honest with her.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2007
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 9:11am

" and we had a blast! " I suggest you do the same agin.

good luck.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-19-2007
Sat, 05-10-2008 - 3:25pm

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