What do i do??

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-28-2008
What do i do??
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Thu, 02-28-2008 - 4:37pm

hi


I found some pics on my boyfriends phone of an ex girlfriend in her underwear/bikini. We been together for 2 years. I found them on his phone. I confronted him and he instantly got so mad he told me to get out and not come back. He was mad I looked at his phone and couldnt believe what I had done, said i was sneaking around. He told me it was over. Bear in mind the last few months been going great I practically have started living with him and nothin untoward was going on.


He since said the pic's were harmless and meant nothing to him and they were just good mates. I didnt hear from him anymore until i asked to go collect my stuff, i asked 3 times before he responded and then it was nasty, saying i want ur stuff out by time he got home that evening. I did it and left his keys in the letterbox.


Didnt hear a thing. Then I get a text asking me if I know why its over, I say how dare u I should not have looked at ur phone but what are those pics about. I say I dont feel bad and im angry and hurt. He just says ok cool. Then he redeems again and says the pics were sent in fun cos she was at work and ripped her skirt so she sent a pic of her bum. Does that explain the other 4 on there? So i tell him i really dont give a s*** and that im going out and getting my life back, then he turns chatty like its a normal convo, says go out enjoy yourself it will make a change, so i say yeah i will, he then says ok believe it when i see it, i say what does it matter to him cos he aint gotta worry bout it and its not his prob anymore....he never got back to me after that. That was lunch

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Thu, 02-28-2008 - 5:15pm

Welcome to the board donna_012008,


I guess I'm confused about what your question is. Do you want to get back together with him? If not, than move on with your life like you told him you were doing. I think you have never right to be worried about those pics. If they really were in innocent fun, he wouldn't have gotten some upset about you finding them.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 02-28-2008 - 6:53pm

Welcome to the board donna_012008,


::He since said the pic's were harmless and meant nothing to him and they were just good mates. He since said the pic's were harmless and meant nothing to him and they were just good mates.


Wow, so he'd be ok with you sending pics of you in underwear/bikini to one of your 'good *guy* mates'?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2006
Thu, 02-28-2008 - 8:40pm

What do you do?


He broke up with you so ignore all contact and move on. He isn't worth it and you can't trust him. He really doesn't show a lot of respect does he?