what do i do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-10-2008
what do i do?
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Thu, 01-10-2008 - 10:41am

i am new to this village but i am having a problem. i am looking for an answer to my relationship with a girl i love. me and this girl started dating in the fall and back then she was really all over me. we dated for almost a month and then she broke up with me because her first love who she broke up with because of me. She then caled me and says that she misses me and wants me back, but just to

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2006
In reply to: eray31
Thu, 01-10-2008 - 10:57am
I'd say that she isn't over her ex yet and she's in a transitional phase...she's rebounding to replace a relationship she just lost.

~Kristi

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Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: eray31
Thu, 01-10-2008 - 1:00pm

Welcome to the board eray31,


If you can't be just friends with her, than don't go for it. Otherwise, you will just end up getting hurt by thinking there "might" be a chance for the two of you again.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: eray31
Thu, 01-10-2008 - 6:56pm

She wants to have it all ways - she doesn't want to lose you, but also

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2007
In reply to: eray31
Thu, 01-10-2008 - 7:48pm
Go. This girl will eventually leave you for someone else when she gets bored of you or when she finally decides she doesn't need to be in a relationship to be happy.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: eray31
Thu, 01-10-2008 - 9:17pm

Welcome to the board eray31,


It's easy to idealize a short relationship and wonder about 'what if' and 'if only'.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-10-2008
In reply to: eray31
Tue, 01-22-2008 - 1:32pm
yes they were together for years. he was her first love. its hard. were still at school together and we look at each other and its weird. so i donnt know