What do I do---he's a chronic perv
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What do I do---he's a chronic perv
| Thu, 03-04-2004 - 1:11pm |
I caught my fiancee on the phone with one of his ex-girlfriends jerking off. I reamed him about it and he said that she (the ex) didn't know what he was doing, that they were not talking about anything sexual. He said that jerking off like that is just a habbit. A few days later I caught him on the internet asking for a woman's phone number so they could have phone sex. I know he loves me but I really don't like the fact that he is calling his ex or strange women to have phone sex with them. He swears he's not cheating but when I catch him doing things like that I wonder if he's telling me the truth!! What should I do?

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Gosh, to me what he's doing IS cheating!
If he is lying or hiding things from you and then not taking responsibility he needs to grow up and maybe one day he will realize that it was his own immaturity and bad behavior that caused him to lose you.
Regardless, he is not to be trusted until HE EARNS that trust!
Trust your instincts! If you are suspicious of him then you need to respect that you are a smart woman, even if he doesn't respect that fact!
What a player. He is clearly not emitting those "ready to get married or even be in a relationship" vibes!
You deserve to be treated like a queen and 100% loving and faithfulness that someone else can give you. Don't let him disrespect you.
Tiffany
Tiffany