What to do now?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-31-2007
What to do now?
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Wed, 10-31-2007 - 10:26am

I am engaged, well employed and have been supporting my fiance for the last 2 years. He got to quit his job and go back to school to realize his dreams. He is now still unemployed.

He smokes in our new house as he declares that since he put the money down on the house, it is HIS property, not ours and he can do whatever he wants (even though i pay the mortgage and everything else). I just bought a new car and he wants to smoke in that too...

We haven't had sex in months and in general, I'm feeling pretty miserable about myself.

He often stays up to 5 in the morning to party with his friends and it is all really affecting my work and lifestyle i want to lead.

He says my unhappiness is my own demons, all I do is "bitch and complain" and he is doing everything perfectly. I love him but this attitude is impossible to deal with.

Where do i go from here? What can i do to help my situation?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2004
In reply to: delie3
Thu, 11-01-2007 - 7:50am

Wow--I would say that you have cause to "bitch and complain," as he says.

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