What do u think ?????????

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-09-2005
What do u think ?????????
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Sun, 07-13-2008 - 10:06pm
Hello everyone, i am new to this discussion board. I have recently gotten into this new relationship. Well

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-14-2008
Sun, 07-13-2008 - 10:12pm
Your profile says that you have a husband and two kids.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-09-2005
Sun, 07-13-2008 - 10:27pm
I do have 2 kids and yes i was married.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2006
Sun, 07-13-2008 - 11:38pm

Does he have kids? Is that why he stays at the house or do you think he is still romantically or sexually involved with this wife?


You have kids to think of. What do you think is best for them?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2007
Mon, 07-14-2008 - 9:31am
Yes, I KNOW that you know the right answer, that this is a waste of time for you... Often in an affair, though I have only read and deduced, a man sees nothing permanent about it and a woman does not want to see it as temporary. So you are stuck. You can either satisfy the part of you that needs immediate completion - which is the desire to be wanted and needed romantically no matter what the long-term sacrifice - or you can think about your future just going nowhere and wasting time with a man who belongs to someone else. Life is short, why not spend it with someone who really wants to be yours? You won't get this time back.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Mon, 07-14-2008 - 2:40pm

Welcome to the board pileggigirl,


Has he filed for divorce from his wife?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-02-2007
Mon, 07-14-2008 - 2:54pm

>>So my question is do ya'll think i am wasting my time on something that will never be mine. <<


iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 07-14-2008 - 3:34pm

Welcome to the board pileggigirl,


I have some of the same questions - has he filed for divorce and do they have kids together?


Walking away now will save you a lot of heartache in the future.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-09-2005
Tue, 07-15-2008 - 9:24pm
Yes he has a 3 yr. old son with his wife. This doesn't affect my kids cause they have no knowledge of his marital status. They just see him and i as a couple and they know he has a son.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-09-2005
Tue, 07-15-2008 - 9:26pm
No he hasn't filed for divorce from his wife. Its sad but thats not even a topic we discuss.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Wed, 07-16-2008 - 4:33pm
I would end the relationship until he files for divorce. But that's just me.

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