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| Fri, 05-14-2004 - 12:45pm |
I finally connected with a man who has had a crush on me for a very long time. We were attracted to each other but just never made a move for one reason or another. girlfriends, boyfriends etc. Well recently we were both single and connected. I just found out that he is still married. I knew he was married but had heard that he was divorced. Well he has been separated for over a year and lives in a different state from his wife. They have not even filed. I feel very strongly about dating men who have girlfriends or wifes. I will not do it. I never asked him if he was divorced I just assumed it from what I had heard from friends. I did ask him if he had a girlfriend... he told me no, he has girls that he dates but is very nervous about relationships due to the fact that he was burned before in his marriage. We live in different states so it is not like we are really in a realtionship. We were just starting. We were planning a vacation with friends this summer. What would you do?

Besides living in seperate states from his estranged wife, is there a specific reason why he has waited dso long to file? Are children involved? There can be many reasons why he has waited and still hasnt filed, have you asked him?Does he know you "rules" of not dating attached men?
It does seem odd that he has kind of hidden this all from you, but
Carrie
Edited 5/14/2004 1:23 pm ET ET by itwinflame
Carrie
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