What do you think! Any advice is welcome!
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|Fri, 12-13-2013 - 9:38am|
I have been spending time with a man for almost a year now. We went into the time together with no expectations. We enjoy each other and it is like we are in a relationship but with out the definition of say we are in a relationship. He was heart broken by his ex wife. He thought he would be married for ever. He shows me love and treats me well. I just tell everyone we are using each other. He says that does not sound good...but really it may be the truth. I think I love him...I usually don't spend this much time with men..my cut off is 3 months. I tend to get bored and need new things. With him I don't feel that way. I guess I want more but at the same time I don't. I know I am so out there most of the time. We are both very afraid of getting hurt. He tells me he spends time with me because he doesn't have to. He does not want to define the relationship. He says he will not tell anyone every again that he loves them. He says he promised himself he will not show PDA...but he does. He also says I don't know if that will change next week, two weeks from now or years from now. So what do yall think so far? Could we both be so scared we are in denial? Are we both really wasting our time? I do not want to grow old and have to go to Applebees alone! (line from a movie) Your adivce is greatly appreciated.
Ps should I just be happy with the way things are now. They really are good! What is wrong with me?