What does he mean?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-18-2008
What does he mean?
4
Fri, 01-18-2008 - 6:47am
I have been with a man now for three yrs and recently after we exchanged X-mas cards and gifts he just vanished. I haven't heard anything from him in 4 weeks and the very brief conversation I did have with him when I asked him where he has been all he said was he had been "busy" and we would talk. That was about 2 wks ago. What in the world is going on here?
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Fri, 01-18-2008 - 11:30am

Welcome to the board confused1232008,


That is weird after being together for three years. Has he ever done anything like this before? If not, I am thinking he wants to end the relationship. I would call him and demand to know what is going on.

Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at Photobucket


iVillage Member
Registered: 01-18-2008
Fri, 01-18-2008 - 6:03pm
I have tried a number of times to contact him and have gotten no response. Although I very briefly spoke to him and he said that he was "busy" and we would talk. He has done this to me before and stayed gone for 6 months and came back.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-04-2007
Fri, 01-18-2008 - 7:40pm
I'm not trying to sound harsh but he does not love you. The fact that he has done this before, especially for that amount of time, is incomprehensible. Why would you take back someone who abandons you? Move on.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 01-18-2008 - 10:47pm

::He has done this to me before and stayed gone for 6 months and came back.


And you let him come bacK?