I'm really confused by my ex boyfriend. I've written on a few other boards and haven't relly gotten much responce so I am going to try my luck here.
I started dating my ex 2 summers ago, I broke it off because he was comming on really stong and he was 5 years older then me and I just freeked. Then Oct. of that year he sent me a present for my b-day and told me he missed me and we got together and started dating again until this past summer. The last time I saw him was at my sisters wedding in July. (He is my brother-in laws childhood friend) He told me he was busy with work and he told that to my brother-in law too when he complained he never saw him anymore. Shortly after that we had planned to get together (long distance relationship) and he called me up and said that he was stressed out with work. He had all these goals that he wanted to acomplish and hadn't and that he didn't want to be in another long distance relationship and he wanted to be just friends. I was extreemly hurt and stopped calling him. But he comtinued to call me a lot. I hardly ever pick up the phone when he calls. But about call 1) His great bonus and how his job is getting better, (call 2) he bought the motercycle he has always wanted (call 3) that he has to go out and get the things he wants he can't sit around and wait for everything to just happen to him and last nights call was to tell me he finally got his first appartment. Its almost as if he is trying to show me that he is accomplishing everything now. I miss him a lot and I love him so much. But what bother me was before we hung up he said "you can call whenever you want you know" and I told him "the reason I don't call you or pick up when you call is because it upsets me because I miss you" and then he said "well hopefully I will talk to you soon or not if you." Then he ended the conversation and hung up. I guess what confuses me is why he keeps calling me and telling me this when he ended it. When I try to get him to talk about what is going on he ends the conversation or changes the topic. I feel as though he cares about me but is afriad. All of his friends got married this summer and that was when everything started to get weird. I don't know. I guess I am just looking for some insite or maybe some advice. I'm just really confused and tired of crying whenever I talk to him. I really just want to sit down face to face and talk to him.