What does it mean? Am i living in denial (Adults)?
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|Thu, 07-21-2011 - 1:00pm|
I would like to know your opinion on something that's bothering me. I've been with my boyfriend for the past 6 years, i am 31 and he is 35. We have our issues just like every other couple.I have hurt him before and he's hurt me too, we have talked and decided to work on our relationship and we are..... I am a very independent person and never asked a man for a penny, gifts or anything AT ALL in my life. I own my house, pay my bills, have a decent job etc..unfortunately, i had a family emergency, and needed additional $300 and so, i asked if i can borrow from him and his answer was "i dont have money like that and have a lot of bills to pay". He then said, he will try to move bills around and see if he can comeup with it but, i was very much ashamed so i told him not to worry about it. Its not more so his answer that bothers me but, the fact that i know he does have the money..... Now; here a bit background on his lifestyle, he ownes a nice house, drives a 60K car, have a great job as a director or technology, have no kids or dependants or family to support. He will always buy very nice and expensive stuff for himself or his house hold but, if i ever say lets do this or that or go on vacation or anything else to that matter, he always talks how he is broke and have a lot of bills to pay....excuses or is it me? The 6 years we have dated, he never ever took me anywhere, not once not even for occasions like my birthday or his...everything we do revolves around the house...i know we all have bills to pay but, with him it seems its only a problem when i ask......weird? what exactly does this mean? am i living in denial? am really confused and need your help? Thanks!