what dose this mean

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-15-2007
what dose this mean
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Tue, 09-23-2008 - 10:43am
I'm 36 years old and been living with a younger man our sex life is good but here in the last week or tow he ask me how i fell about having a threesome iv had one before with an my x husband it was not something i enjoyed in fact it lead to him cheating on me many times my boyfriend also has been in threesomes what dose this mean ? is he looking fore a way to cheat on me is it a test o and he wants me to find the other person he don't care a man or a woman or both i don't think i would be comfortable watching him having sex with another woman and if he loves me how can he see another man doing me ?
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sece
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Tue, 09-23-2008 - 12:07pm

Welcome to the board sece_gal,


I don't think it means he is looking for a way to cheat on you. If you do not want a threesome you need to let him know that you are not okay with having one and that you will not do it. If it keeps bringing it up or tries to force it on you than he is not the right one for you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 09-23-2008 - 1:29pm

Welcome to the board sece_gal,


Sounds like the two of you aren't compatible on this issue and he may not be the guy for you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-01-2008
Tue, 09-23-2008 - 9:57pm
Well, it sounds to me like you already know the answer: