what is is emotional affair?
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what is is emotional affair?
| Tue, 01-13-2004 - 2:32pm |
I dont know if this is s stupid question but I really dont know the meaning of this?
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| Wed, 01-14-2004 - 4:06pm |
An emotional affair is when you are with one person but still fixated on a past relationship, even though you may have no contact with them. I went through this recently. I was the fixee. I spent the first year with my current man unable to completely connect with him on a deeper emotional level because I missed my ex, who I related to on a level I had never experienced before. For reasons I won't get into here, it became apparent that my ex and I should of never ventured beyond friendship, but by then it was too late. I didn't know the depth of my fixation until my current man pointed this out to me, a year later, that it was keeping me from comletely committing to him. He was right. So I wrote my ex a final goodbye email (I had scattered contact with him via email after we broke up) and put that relationship behind me. It was amazing how my focus changed. I became so much more in tune with my current beau. An emotional affair can be a very destructive thing if people do not face it and deal with it.
