What is He Telling Me???
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What is He Telling Me???
| Fri, 01-09-2004 - 2:11pm |
I have been in a long distance relatioship for 8 months now. He currently lives in Canada and I live in Indiana. He came down for Christmas and we had a great one!!! But, he told me that he loves me, very deeply, but thinks there is something missing. He is not sure what it is, but would like the time and space to figure it out. He did elude to the fact that he might want to go out with another, but is not sure. He said he did not want to be disrespectful to me, if he did go out while still with me. We have been through a lot together over the past 8 months...we talk on the phone nightly, see each other at least 2 x a month. He believes that we are meant to be with each other, as I do too. My son graduates from HS in 4 months, at that time I am willing to go where my boyfriend is, and he knows that. I am trying to understand what is going on, but it's very hard. He says I have done more for him than anyone ever has in his whole life, he sometimes talks about not being deserving etc.... I asked what I should be expecting during this, and one thing he said not talking to each other every day, and he would wonder what I was doing. Well we have talked every day!!!! So I'm very confused on the whole idea of this situation. Any comments, suggestions, insight???? I would greatly appreciate it....

I'm sorry you have to go through this. I hope things work out for you.
Carrie
I say step back (as hard as it might be) - give him enough room to grow or hang himself and see what happens. Perhaps he will have a complete change of heart once you two are living in the same city.
Good luck...