What is he thinking?
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What is he thinking?
| Mon, 10-04-2004 - 1:05pm |
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months. We have been living together for the past 3 1/2 months at least. We are going to Vegas at the end of October and had talked about getting married while we were there but no plans set in stone or anything. If we did fine, if not fine. but.... For the last week or so something has been a little different. Not bad, just different. So on Saturday, I asked him what was wrong and he didn't want to talk about it because he knew that it was going to hurt my feelings. I asked if he wanted to break up and he said no. I told him that I was just going to leave until he wanted to talk about it. I got all my stuff from the house and left. The whole time I was doing this, he kept asking me why I was taking everything and why I was doing this. I just told him because I did not feel like he wanted me around. He said that was not true but that he needed some time. He still wants to be together but just not stay together all the time. He said he needs to get things straight in his head and he keeps telling me that everything is going to be okay but... I don't know that. I know that we jumped into everything really fast but we are great together. We are very happy and haven't really even had a fight yet. One of the things that he said before I left was that he needed to see if he was going to miss me. What is that all about?? What is he thinking?
What do you think happened????
Please help, I am very confused because I really did not see this coming. We have always been very happy and always had passion for each other up until this. I went over there last night and everything was kind-of weird. We still talk just like we always did but I just go home when I get ready. I just don't know what to think?
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| Mon, 10-04-2004 - 1:56pm |
Oh My GOD!!!!!!!!!!! That is crazy! Do NOT get married just because you are going to Vegas. Ya'll have only been to gether for a few months and never got in a fight! Trust me you will get in fights, and that's when you really learn how people really are. I've been together with my boyfriend (now husband) for 4 years before we got mearried, and we've been married for a year and 8 months. We are still learning things about each other. I thought I knew him so well in a few months when we first got together, but you know what, I was so wrong!!!! I am still learning about what he is like. And while we were dating for those 4 years we were together everyday. You better get to know each other a whole lot better before you get married. Other wise you will just end up in divorce. So why do it now when it's just going to feel like a mistake later on. What's the rush? Me and my husband has been together for 5 years and if I can go back in time, even though we are happy, I would'nt be married right now if I can go back and change it. I would of waited even longer. Please take my advice, Do NOT get married this soon.!!!!!!
| Mon, 10-04-2004 - 2:04pm |
Thanks for your reply. I understand about the getting married. It was just something that we had talked about. It was not a big deal either way. What I am confused about is the sudden change in our living arrangements. I don't know how to take it. It is just really strange to go from living together to not in one day and at the same time keep everything else the same. That is why I am so confused.
