What is he thinking?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-22-2004
What is he thinking?
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Tue, 08-10-2004 - 8:31am
My ex boyfriend accused me of sleeping with one of our friends. Does he really think that I did or is he trying to get me to confess to anything I've done since we broke up a month and a half ago? Any insight will help. Thanks!
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-26-2003
Tue, 08-10-2004 - 8:52am

Accused of sleeping with someone else while you were still together?Or after you broke up?Waht reasoning does he have behind the accusations?Why did you break up?


Give us a little more insight...:)


 

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-22-2004
Tue, 08-10-2004 - 9:13am
He accused me of sleeping with him after we broke up. We broke up because we were fighting too much, but we have been hanging out a some over the last two weeks. We havn't been fighting since we broke up and there seems to be a chance for us to get back together.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-02-2004
Tue, 08-10-2004 - 12:12pm
Why do you care?

MB

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-25-2004
Tue, 08-10-2004 - 12:18pm
more than likely he is trying to accuse you of doing this to guage your resoponse and see if you really did sleep with someone else. If the two of you have been hanging out again, then obviously there's still feelings there and I think for men and women both, running to another person so soon after a break up is very hurtful to the other person if they find out. Ask him if he slept with anyone. Maybe he has a quilty conscience and is blaming you, hoping that you did the same thing so it will reassure him he's not such a bad guy if you did it too.