What is he thinking?
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What is he thinking?
| Fri, 06-04-2004 - 3:17am |
hello. i've been with bt for almost 2 years now. as any couple, we have out moments at times but he always made the initiative to make peace first. for example, he would drive up to my school at the end of the week and drive me home since i do not live at home during the weedays due to school. or he would come over to my house during the weekend while i'm still asleep to surprise me. or he would call or leave messages at my cell phone even when it is turned off. but now, it's been a week now but nothing. no messages, no visits. and even when i see him online, he would not say anything. he eve logged off AIM.
what is he trying to do here? has he moved on? is this a fight or a break up? this is so strange. it's the first time he acted like this, so nonchalant and oblivious. he often tells me that "no matter what happens" that his "love for me is always the same." but i'm thinking his actions do not show that. is he ready to give up on me already? he's ready to let go?
please let me know your opinion. i'm desperatly in need of some different pont of view.

Maybe there is something he sees in you that he doesn't like for the long term and he doesn't know how to tell you.
Maybe he is not ready for a longterm relationship. You don't state your age but since you bring up school I assume you are both very young.
At any rate, there is nothing you can do. Trying to persuade him will not work. You must give him time.
Try to find other things to do in the mean time.