What a mess.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-01-2007
What a mess.
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Fri, 04-18-2008 - 9:41am

Ok, I'll try to be as brief as possible.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: allnolcat3
Fri, 04-18-2008 - 12:07pm

Welcome to the board allnolcat3,


I can understand your hurt, but I think it is best to stop chasing after him. If anything, it is just building his ego up. If he truly loved you and wanted to get back together with you, he wouldn't have started seeing someone else.


You were right to stick to your guns about not getting back together without counseling being involved. He is drinking and anger problems and that will affect you children, and isn't something he can just fix without some professional help. I know. My dad struggled with both this whole life.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: allnolcat3
Fri, 04-18-2008 - 12:20pm

Welcome to the board allnolcat3,


I gotta say, I agree with Coltara.