What is my BF's problem?
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What is my BF's problem?
| Thu, 04-26-2007 - 7:54pm |
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Edited 4/28/2007 3:46 am ET by cyberspacestar
Edited 4/28/2007 3:46 am ET by cyberspacestar
| Thu, 04-26-2007 - 7:54pm |
There is nothing great about this guy. He is an abusive !$$#*(). He calls you names, he slaps you, he disrespects you, ignores your feelings and threatens to kick you out on the streets. His lack of desire to have sex or kiss you is the least of your problems. Start actively looking for alternative living arrangements or resign yourself to the abuse and neglect. The worst thing you can ever do to yourself is put yourself in a vulnerable position with an abuser - it will only get worse.
You moved in with a stranger. Whatever you thought you knew or loved about him doesn't exist. This is who he is!
Why can't you work?
My guess is that he doesn't want to be your boyfriend and regrets asking you to move in. As much as he wants to ask you to leave, he cannot do so because he knows you've got nowhere else to go and doesn't want to wear that guilt.
Yes, his behaviours are dysfunctional...but what do you expect when moving in with a recovering drug addict? Drugs can and do fry people's brains permanently.
Is there any reason you can't go and live with your parents for a while? Or live with a friend? The sooner you are out of there, the better it will be for both of you.