what to say

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-19-2007
what to say
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Fri, 10-19-2007 - 12:44pm

What do you say to someone that you have hurt? A little about my problem...I have been in a 2 1/2 year relationship with this man. I love him and we have had our share of problems. He works out of town and here in the last two months we have gotten closer than ever. It was all I ever wanted with him, to be his one and only, I had it then of all things I could have done to him I betrayed him, his trust, his love for me, I lost the one thing that mattered the most to me. I cheated on him with his best friend 3 days after he went out of town. I hate myself for breaking his heart and I want him to forgive me, I don't deserve another chance but I can't live without this man. I need some advice, please help. What do I say to him to ease his pain and hurt.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: froggyt
Fri, 10-19-2007 - 1:00pm

Welcome to the board froggyt,


If the roles were reversed what would you want to hear?

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Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: froggyt
Fri, 10-19-2007 - 1:02pm

Welcome to the board froggyt,


I don't think there is much you can say to make him feel better. He has been betrayed not only by his girlfriend, but also by his best friend. That is extremely difficult to recover from. It will probably be a long, long time before he will be able to forgive either one of you.


Why did you cheat on him if you love him so much?

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Registered: 10-19-2007
In reply to: froggyt
Fri, 10-19-2007 - 1:47pm

Honestly no good answer for why, Irregard for the way he felt about me, stupidity and shelfishness