what should i beleive
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what should i beleive
| Sat, 08-28-2004 - 9:30am |
i really don't know where to start. but here it goes. i live in a small town and i've been married to a great guy for the past year and a half. we been together for 5 years totalled. well he drives a unique car i guess. it's a honda civic but he has it fixed up like no one else, and in a small town every1 knows the car, but not really who's it for except for people who know us. anyway i know fro sure my husband is not the one to cheat cause he'll get mad at his best friend if he found out his friend cheated on a girl that he was with just for a month or so and won't talk to his friend for months because he gets so mad cause he thinks it is wrong. neway here's my problem: a couple of months ago i found condoms in my husband's car that he bought from a gas station, we still use condoms but we already had some in the house. i think there was no point at all to get some extras from a gas station when the ones we had could of lasted till we got some more from the store.well we never said a word to each other. he acted like they weren't in there, and i pretended like i never found them. i wanted to see if they would ever come up missing, which went on for months and they never did. well one day we get in an argument and after things cooled down we were talkin about how much we loved each other while cryin and lyin in bed and i confessed that i found them. he was shocked, he was like why u didn't tell me they were in there, i got them for us and i forgot about them. well i was tired of arguin so i just left it like that even though it kinda didn't make since. well the other day i'm in a chat room, and i'm chatting with this girl who is from the same town but we didn't know each other. i didn't give her my name but i asked her if she knew me without letting her know it was me, u know? neway, i asked her if she had ever seen my husband's car, and i just described it to her. i was just messing around to get her reaction of the car, i didn't say it was ours. but she was like yeah i've seen the car before. and i started askin questions like where and when does she usually see it.
she told me on a street turnin on another street ( she gave me the names of the streets) so i asked her when and she said usually on weekdays so i asked at what time if it was in the afternoon it would of been like ok, but she said ususlly in the morning between 6:30 and 7:00.now the streets she told me he was on is where he goes to put gas. but my husband goes to work at different times and gets off at different times everyday. he's in the oilfield. he usually goes on different jobs all over in different towns unlees he works the shop 2 towns over and he has to be there for 7:00am. so i was thinkin maybe she sees him (the car) the mornin he works the shop and he was going to or leaving the gas station, but one thing bothers me, it's on the opposite side of town, he has to go the other way to get to work and he can easily stop at the same kinda gas station on the highway that IS on his way to work. i never brought it up to him. sorry so long. but is there nothing wrong and i'm just thinking out of control or is there something i should know and be worried about. we get along fine and we satisfy each other in every part of our relationship and marriage. what is going on? thank you.
she told me on a street turnin on another street ( she gave me the names of the streets) so i asked her when and she said usually on weekdays so i asked at what time if it was in the afternoon it would of been like ok, but she said ususlly in the morning between 6:30 and 7:00.now the streets she told me he was on is where he goes to put gas. but my husband goes to work at different times and gets off at different times everyday. he's in the oilfield. he usually goes on different jobs all over in different towns unlees he works the shop 2 towns over and he has to be there for 7:00am. so i was thinkin maybe she sees him (the car) the mornin he works the shop and he was going to or leaving the gas station, but one thing bothers me, it's on the opposite side of town, he has to go the other way to get to work and he can easily stop at the same kinda gas station on the highway that IS on his way to work. i never brought it up to him. sorry so long. but is there nothing wrong and i'm just thinking out of control or is there something i should know and be worried about. we get along fine and we satisfy each other in every part of our relationship and marriage. what is going on? thank you.
