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| Thu, 04-05-2007 - 4:48pm |
Hi everyone, I need some help and advice.
Me and df dated back in high school. We broke up for 2 years and then got back together and have been together now for 4 years. I am not sure what to do anymore? Things haven't been great, we are both very stubborn people and fought a fair bit. The last month or so have been really bad.
We have broke up a couple times lately, I don't want to break up because I love him dearly. We broke up again last night/today and I am completely lost without him. He had an emotional affair with a mutual friend (and some cyber sex) in the last month. Our relationship with her is just about completely finished.
What should I do? He says he isn't attracted to me anymore! I know he is hurt because of the fighting between both us and him and her (since they have been friends for 9 years, talked like they wanted to date, except she is also in a long-term relationship and doesn't want him, so nothing else will happen between them anymore, and now the friendship is basically ruined).
I still love him but he doesn't love me? I don't want to break up, what should I do???

Welcome to the board tinytina21,
Let me ask you something, k?
I think it's time to cut him loose. At this point, it sounds like he's only in the relationship because he feels sorry for you and will feel bad about you being sad if he breaks it off.
Don't you deserve a relationship with someone who wants to be with you?