What should I do????
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What should I do????
| Mon, 03-29-2004 - 12:51pm |
Long story here it goes.. I was with my ex for almost 6 months, things were awesome, or so I thought, we got along great, had an awesome sex life...and then he broke things off...for the time we went out I actually thought he liked me, only to find out after that he only went out with me because I "liked" him so much.. like he always hugged me and stuff he initiated everything...I was heart broken when he broke up with me, like we are still close friends but I still love him and would do anything to have him back as a boyfriend...despite the fact that he hurt me so much, he has done alot to help me out financially when I needed some money for a car payment, and he is still good to me.. I don't understand what went wrong..I was his first kiss,sexual partner,first g/f..he said that I am just jackie to him.. that the feelings aren't there...before him I had a b/f that cheated on me and I feel foolish for letting him have my heart.. I have a huge insecurity problem, I used to be over 200 pounds in highschool, and that was 4 years ago and I have maintained my weight to 150lbs or less since then.. and I think I am a pretty girl...so why isn't he attracted to me anymore? and how can someone say they like you so much but don't really and just say it for your sake...please give me advice I am awreck...and need to know what I should do....Thanks Alot

The short of it, just because he says he's no longer attracted to you or doesn't act like it, there is a big chance that's not the case at all. That its a deeper issue that lies with him. FOr instance, not knowing how to handle commitment. Or having feelings for some one that you never expected to have. Don't automatically blame yourself. Men make NO sense to me whatsoever.
What would I do? I'd move on. If he comes back into your life like my guy did somehow, make sure that before you dive into anything, that you can forgive him. A mistake that I made that made things worse down the road. Life is SOOO strange.