What should I do?

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What should I do?
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Tue, 03-23-2004 - 2:26pm
Last Saturday was my mum's 40th birthday and we were having a party for her.My mum and dad split up a few weeks ago, because of constant arguments.

Earlier in the day me and my cousin Shauna were asked to get the bar decorated for my mum's party. Shauna's boyfriend Gerard who is 21 stayed at my house to stop my mum from going out. It took three hours for Shauna and I to decorate the bar. When we got back to my house my mum and Gerard weren't about. we found them together in bed.

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Registered: 08-04-2003
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Tue, 03-23-2004 - 3:19pm
Your mother is an adult, though she's not acting like one.

You have to deal with how you feel about it. How do you feel about it?

Shauna - well, she broke up with him right? I'm sure it's going to be hard for her to be around your mom now.


Carrie

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Registered: 09-26-2003
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Tue, 03-23-2004 - 3:57pm
Unfortunatley, your mother isnt acting like a mature adult and your sister is the one facing the consequences. Not only was it an act that wasnt thought through, their relationship will face a lifetime of hurdles to overcome because of it. How is your sister dealing with all of this?


 

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Registered: 08-04-2003
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Tue, 03-23-2004 - 5:12pm
Cousin, not sister, but that's not much better.....


Carrie

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Thu, 03-25-2004 - 3:24pm
after my mum and gerard had been caught together in bed my told it was a one off and that it would not happen again.

later that night during my mum's party i went outside to answer my phone, after the call i heard a noise from the side of the building, i went to see what it was.

it was my mum and gerard having sex, my mum lied to me. i was shocked and i walked off and i went home.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
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Thu, 03-25-2004 - 8:09pm
Great story! Your mom is in a public bar with your cousin's 21 year old boyfriend. You're outside and hear them having sex inside. Your mom must be really wild or you're testing a Jerry Springer Show script. This one is too much to believe.
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Registered: 12-10-2003
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Thu, 03-25-2004 - 8:37pm
I agree.. this is just um... well...wrong. I don't know if I can believe this unless I saw it and I sure as heck don't want to see it.

I would throw up if I saw my mom.... eww!