What should I do?!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-10-2008
What should I do?!!!
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Wed, 09-10-2008 - 1:18am
My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 months and everytime we have sex he always manages to ejaculate before I even have time to get into it. I don't even have the chance to enjoy it before he is finished and ready for sleep. We have both talked about it but neither of us knows the way to increase the time length. We arent even sure what the problem is. What should I do?
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2006
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 12:22pm
There are other ways that he can please you. Why not let him know what those are??
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 12:52pm

Welcome to the board demongirl_19,


Sounds like you need more foreplay. He has to be willing to work with you to achieve this.

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 4:54pm

Welcome to the board demongirl,


Take a look at the boards Carrie posted the links too. Also he could try changing postions when he feels he is getting close to finishing or he could try to think of other things.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 09-11-2008 - 3:35pm

You should see a sex therapist with him. He has a problem, called, premature enjaculation. There are many ways this can and needs to be handled. The therapist will help him with it. And, also, even if he is finished, there are still many things he can do to tend to you, and make you feel satisfied as well. Otherwise, it's just selfish and of course, you will start to feel as an object. Let him know what you need and like as well, and get the help necessary.


Best wishes,