What Should I Do, HELP
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What Should I Do, HELP
| Thu, 01-01-2004 - 2:50pm |
I need some advice on what to do. I have been married 7 years, we have been together 11. We have a 3 yr old daughter. I thought our marriage was typical. We have nice things, and all that. Our sex life has not been great, but I do have a child to take care of. In Oct my H told me he was not happy and he wanted to separate. I refused, I told him I would do anything, but I was not leaving. I found out 2 days later, that he was seeing someone else. I asked him to move out. He did. I was so angry, once that passed, I wanted him home. I am willing to do anything to make our marriage work, I know that it is partly my fault that he was looking outside our marriage. Well he came back home 3 weeks later.
He has started therapy on his own, he tells me not to think that he is home for good. When I ask about the other women, he refuses to discuss it and says he will not. I have not asked anymore about her. I tell him I love him, but he does not say it back. I feel that he is only here for our daughter, but I dont want to say that, I dont want to lose him. When I have brought it up, he says he is back home arent I.
We agreed to go to marriage counseling, but he will not go until he feels better thru his own counseling.
I just dont know what to do. Any advice would help

You should post on the Betrayed Spouse Support board.