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What should I so?
| Mon, 08-23-2004 - 12:38pm |
I have been married for almost 2 years now and my husband told me last week he doesn't want kids. We have talked about kids since before we were married and all of a sudden this. I know he is really stressed out right now because he is changing jobs and we are relocating. We are supposed to move in 3 months and he has told me that we need to decide this before the move. We love each other very much and besides this we have been very happy. He did say that if we got pregnant on accident that he would stay with me but he would get fixed. That is fine with me because I had only wanted one child in the first place he was the on who wanted five but he won't try for just one kid. I just don't understand this and I really don't know what to do.
TIA
Cheri

Unfortunatley, what you had decided upon together before and thru thismarriage, now has changed...
I agree that after the move things may calm down but I wouldn't count on him changing his mind.
'he has told me that we need to decide this before the move.'
Decide what, exactly? THere isn't a decision to be made if he really won't have kids.
What is more important to you-a marriage without children or leaving your husband in hopes of finding someone you love who wants marriage and children?