It's not that I don't want a relationship with the other man. I just don't know how he feels, and I don't know where to begin. I have feelings for him. We have never talked about what we are doing, besides that we agreed we don't want to stop.
You may want to consider moving to the next town to where you are now living at least for a while. It will get you away from his brother. Since his brother is already in a committed relationship and it's his *brother*, it's probably a good idea to just leave that alone and not go there. You are still very young. You missed a great deal of your teen years and dating. You learn a lot about relationships when you go through those years. Move and spend some time doing things for yourself, learning about yourself, and taking care of yourself before moving into another relationship.
I am unable ot give legal or medical advice. My opinions are based on my experiences and my personal research.
Welcome to the board irishtroubeled,
Well, since you don't want to save any relationship, you might try a few of these boards at iVillage:
Hot Topic: Destined for Divorce
Surviving Divorce & Separation
Ending an Affair Support
Is counseling available in your area?
It's not that I don't want a relationship with the other man. I just don't know how he feels, and I don't know where to begin. I have feelings for him. We have never talked about what we are doing, besides that we agreed we don't want to stop.
You are right. I will just talk to both of them. Tell my husband that we need to just go our own directions.
I am unable ot give legal or medical advice. My opinions are based on my experiences and my personal research.