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| Thu, 03-15-2007 - 11:27am |
HE HAS BEEN ACTING DISTANT LATELY, WHAT SHOULD i DO?
I met my boyfriend through e-harmony he is 40 yrs and I'm 34. For the past six months we have had a wonderful loving and caring relationship. The only concern I always had was that we used to fight too much, and the arguments were getting worse and worse with time. I find him very temperamental, he gets very easily upset and quite frankly we haven't been able to keep a conversation at a discussion level without confrontations.
Two weeks ago, he wanted to break up with me, because he said that we fight too much. We talked about it, and we still together, and the fights have ceased considerably. However, even before he asked me to break up, I kind of suspect that he was getting very distant with me. He doesn't call me as much as he used to, I feel that something has changed. He acts distant, even though he tries to hide it. I asked him if he is seeing someone else, and he said no. I feel he is seeing someone. I love him very much, his actitud it's hurting me.what should I do

It seems like all the fighting ruined your relationship. Both of you noticed the fighting. Do you want to stay together the way the relationship is? If not, talk to him about what you would like to see changed and see if he is willing to make the changes. However, it does seem like the relationship has had it's difficulties for only being together for six months.
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Hi dollymaid and welcome to the board.
How long have you been dating him?
If you guys are fighting so much, then clearly something has been going wrong all along. You say he is too temperamental. However, whatever it is that is going on between you is upsetting for both of you. The problem here is that the two of you have not been able to established healthy communication, where you can both talk over the issues that are bothering you and finding solutions that work for each one. Unless a couple can have healthy, on-going communication, where each person's feelings and views are respected, then the relationship can easily deteriorate into fighting and misunderstandings. At this point it seems
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