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What would you think?
| Thu, 07-05-2007 - 12:26pm |
If you have been with someone for 6+ years and you asked him "What do you love
or like about me?" and the answer was I dont know how to answer that.......I
just do.........
And then you say okay...some peeps have a hard time saying things like that
so you tell them... just think about it and write it down, even just 2. Said he cant
do that.....is that a lack of love, appreciation, respect, just dont care as long
as he has someone in his home to take care of things? I could tell a
person on the street what I like about them in 5 min of meeting them.
Give me a clue please.....both men and women

Welcome to the board avery2005,
Actions speak louder than words. Do his actions show that he loves you?
Some people feel comfortable being emotional and expressing things things that way and others don't. Maybe he is one of them.
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No, it does not mean that he does not love and appreciate you, it means that he has difficulty expressing or perhaps even recognizing what he feels. Some men feel extremely awkward giving voice to that which is deeply personal to them, and deeply meaningful. This man does not know how to feel at home with his feelings sufficiently to communicate them to you.
That said, you have been with him for over 6 years. That's a long time. By now you should know how he operates. If you don't feel loved and cared for by him, what are you doing there?
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I am a fool to be with him.......I really am.....
Men aren't usually as good at women at pinpointing their feelings and putting them into words... I don't think you should punish him for that, if his actions are making you feel loved.
I agree though that there seems to be something else going on. What's the deal with him telling you to ask his ex how he feels?