What's a girl to do????

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Registered: 08-30-2006
What's a girl to do????
Mon, 07-09-2007 - 8:45pm
Okay here is the deal< I have been married for about 3 1/2 years. When we got married everything seemed to be going ok. But now the problem is everywhere I look his ex wife is there. She decided that she was going to come over to my house for 4th of July with her new husband and stepson. My husband didn't have the guts to stand up to her and tell her that she couldn't. They have a daughter together and he feels that it is his duty to let the exwife come over. Now she decided that because we are talking about buying a house the she should be our real estate person. She a sale associate in the real estate business. Now to me that seems a little bit wierd. I mean I have to listen to the memories about their marraige and it really depresses me at times. I mean when my daughter and I talk about her father my husband gets upset, and when I try to explain to him that it is the same thing he does to me he tells me he doesn't want to talk about it or to hush. Or he decides that I don't like his duaghter and am taking it out on her mother. What should I do????????????????