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| Sun, 01-18-2004 - 5:07pm |
From that point things just went down hill. He started staying out for days at a time, wouldn't call, said he was on his way home but i wouldn't see him until the next day. I asked him if he was seeing someone or what was going on? He said he was going through something and that i was nagging him. Mind you he's staying out but we have 4 children together. I'm working, going to school and taking care of the kids.
I spoke to the woman and asked her why was she constantly calling him all day and all night. Of course she lied and said nothing was going on.
Christmas Eve i found out that she has been sleeping with my husband for about 3months to my knowledge. She told me herself she also said the nights that he's not here that he is with her. I can't tell u how hurt i was. I've been with him 14 years and have never even thought about cheating.
My question is what do i do? I love this man unconditionally. I can forgive him but everytime he doesn't come home on time my mind starts to wonder.He has been home more and we have been spending alot of time together and now he even wants to go on a vacation. but sometimes when i want to discuss what happened he doesn't want to.
I haven't run into this woman yet but i know the time is coming because she lives in the area that my children to go school. What's a girl to do? Do i confront her or do i just walk with my head high?
I need help

Carrie